How to Get Laid With Mexican Women

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I don’t regret getting laid with dozens of Mexican girls. But here’s what I’d do differently.

If the only Mexican girls you’ve been exposed to are the FOB ones at your local fast food place, you’ll be in for a treat if you ever decide to head down to the homeland of Tequila.

Barring Selena Gomez and a few other girls in LA, the girls you’ll find south of the Rio Grande are far superior to Mexican girls in the US. However everything in life has a price – it’s much easier to get a first or second-generation Mexican girl in the US to jump into bed with you on the first night.

Mexicanas south of the border are a bit more conservative. Why? Social ramifications and catholic upbringings.Mexcian Girl

That brings me to my first tip for scoring with Mexican girls – Rent your own place. A gringa backpacker will gladly bang you in an 8-person hostel room with her friend asleep on the bottom bunk. You’ll be lucky to get a quality Mexican girl through the door of said hostel.

I remember taking my Mexican girlfriend (who I’d been dating for 3 months) to a hotel and having to use my shitty Spanish with the clerk in order to book the room. My girlfriend stood outside with arms folded and wouldn’t come in until the room was booked and we could walk straight past the front desk.

Finding A Mexican Girlfriend

Mexican women are generally very feminine and natural homemakers. You won’t have to worry so much about cheating either as promiscuity is not part of the culture so much as in other Latin countries.

You won’t find the same slutty vibe in Mexico that you can find in Brazil, Venezuela or the Dominican Republic. In those countries, you can have fun getting drunk and grinding up against as many ghetto black girls as you can handle. In contrast, the vibe in Mexico tends to be more “respectable”.

For guys who are experienced in dating Latin American, Mexico and Mexican girls are more similar to what you will find in Chile or Peru.

Types Of Mexican Girls

Upper-Class (Fresas)

These girls are very white and come from rich families. They have good levels of English having studied in bilingual schools. As a gringo, you hold little exotic value with these girls, but you’ll share more commonalities and thus have more things to talk about on dates.

Personally, I don’t like the bodies on these girls: thin with more angular features and white skin. But that’s just me. I like curves and caramel skin which is why I generally don’t mess with Mexican fresa girls. white-mexican-girls

If you want to date these girls, you’ll need good Spanish, deep pockets and be willing to put in a lot of work.

Middle Class

These types of Mexican girls will usually either be studying or working.

I usually hunt in Mexican middle class circles because the girls will generally have better asses than the fresa girls. Unfortunately for a tit man like myself, Mexican girls are not known for being busty.

But they can be pretty. Just like in Peru, you can find some girls with really cute faces but the bodies in both countries are lacking. It’s the complete opposite of the Dominican Republic and Brazil in that regard.

Ghetto Girls

The girls might be poor but they don’t act rachet. Being a gringo and an English speaker won’t count for much with these girls either.

A Race War

White girls are coveted after in Mexico so you will have a lot of competition from local guys and that’s why I go for the brown chicks.

The genetic make up of Mexican girls can be categorised like so:

  • White
  • Mestizo (a mixture of Spanish and Indigenous blood)
  • Indigenous

The great majority of Mexicans are Mestizos. These will have the best bodies as well – the white girls have no curves and the indigenous girls have square, refrigerator-like bodies.


Exotic Factor

Throughout all of my travels across Latin America and Asia, the only  places where I felt like I had the sex appeal of a rockstar was in Mexico.

One time I was teaching English at the Cruz Roja (Red Cross) nursing school and female students were writing their numbers down on scraps of paper and handing them to me during class.

The other time was when I was camping in the jungle and only hot girl in the village made a beeline for me while I sat in a bar minding my own business and seduced me that same night.

The lesson here: get off the beaten path. Mexico is so big that there are plenty of places you can go where they’ve never seen a gringo before.

However, following the above advice and getting tonnes of attention doesn’t mean it will translate to lays. Dates come easy in Mexico but bangs don’t. It’s a conservative, religious, family-oriented culture, and not one conducive to players who want to bang multiple girls.

Gringo Value

During my time in Mexico, I noticed that European (and less so Canadian guys) have more value than American dudes. Realise that nearly every Mexican has family members living up North. Most Mexicans cross the border to go shopping in San Antonio on any long weekend (that is until Trump builds the wall)

For other races, Mexico might be a niche for Asian guys and it can be hit-or-miss for Black guys depending on where you go. If you are in amazing shape, dress sharp and hang around the liberal areas of Mexico City, Monterrey or (less so) Guadalajara, you’ll do well.

Game Required

Remember these two fundamental rules about how to game girls in Mexico:

  1. Be a gentleman, but a dominant one
    You don’t have to play so many games and you can do some “beta” things such as complimenting her and buying her the occasional gift.
  2. Don’t look like all of the other gringos she has seen
    In other words, don’t be fat, pasty, monolingual and poorly dressed.

Online Game

Tinder and Mexican Cupid should be your two defaults when looking to meet Mexican girls online.

Mexican Cupid and Latin American Cupid are the two best websites for meeting hot Mexican women. If you have the means, get memberships on both as you’l get better results if you spread your bets.

If you are taking a trip to Mexico soon and are thinking of getting to know some girls online before you leave – don’t delay. Online dating has a lag time so I suggest messaging girls at least 3-4 weeks before your arrival date. That way you’ll have one in your bed during the first two days of your arrival.

Getting deep into online dating tactics is beyond the scope of this article but the biggest lesson I’ve learned over the past year is that you should talk to her either on the phone or on Skype before you meet. If you don’t build a deeper connection, you’re just a photo and a number in her Whatsapp list (she’ll have lots of these)

Connecting beyond text messages also reduces the chances of flakes – an important factor in Latin America.


The more time I spend daygaming away from the US and Europe, the more I’ve come to appreciate discretion and being low-key during the day. In the US, being a little bit “out there” and making her laugh will work in your favor. If you come accross that way in Mexico, she’ll just think you’re weird.

Mexican girls will be curious about you but also wary and intimidated so you need to approach in an indirect manner.

Night Game

My number 1 tip for night game success in Mexico would be: Learn to dance Cumbia. Salsa would be a good alternative dance to learn because few Mexican girls know how to dance Salsa. So you’ll either be better than them or they won’t notice how much you suck because they suck just as bad.

Push for the same night lay like you would anywehre else but if it’s not working (because she is with friends) then settle for the number and a date the next day.

Where to go in Mexico

If your main objective on your trip is to date as many beautiful Mexican girls as possible, here is my breakdown of the main areas:

The Coasts

You will have less value in Puerto Vallarta, Playa Del Carmen and Cancun due to the number of other tourists there. Playa is preferrable to Cancun as the crowd will be more wealthy Mexicans and other Latinos as opposed to the hordes of American college kids you’ll find in Cancun.

I would also avoid Cabo San Lucas unless you are looking to enjoy the golden years of retirement before you die.

Of course, if you don’t speak a lick of Spanish, these areas will have the highest number of English speakers.

Two cities on the coast that I would recommend (but you’ll need good Spanish) are:

  • Culiacan
  • Mazatlan

The South

In the Southern states like Chiapas and Oaxaca, you’ll find more indigenous-looking girls similar to the ones in neighboring Guatemala.

The North

Girls in the Northen states like Chihuahua are whiter and taller than those in the South of the country. The downside is, however, that this is the most dangerous region of Mexico due to drug-trafficking and illegal border crossings.

For safetey reasons I would stick to: Monterrey, Saltillo and the state of Nuevo León. And avoid Tijuana, Mexicali and Cuidad Juarez. Where to meet girls in Mexico

Central Mexico

The middle of the country will have more Colombian-looking girls which is why I focus my hunting efforts there.

Both Mexico City (stay in the Condesa, Roma or Polanco areas) and Guadalajara are in the center of the country and are good starting points.

In fact, many Mexican guys told me that the most beautiful women in the country are from the state of Jalisco (the home of Guadalajara). Bear in mind however, that Guadalajara is a much more conservative city than both Mexico City and Monterrey.

If your Spanish is strong and your big huevos like to lead you off the beaten path, visit the following cities and thank me later:

  • Aguascalientes
  • Zacatecas
  • Mazatlan
  • Queretaro
  • Leon

Dispelling Myths

Many guys want to visit Mexico and meet the local women but they usually have two big fears:

  1. I don’t know any Spanish
  2. What if I get shot and dismembered by drug cartels?

The first concern is legimate but over exaggerated and the second is unfounded.

Meeting girls online (using the sites I recommend) allows you to screen for girls who speak English – they’ll have it written in their profile.

When it comes to crime, if you are not involved in gangs and drugs then you won’t have any problem. If you are still worried, avoid border towns and other areas of Mexico where drug cartel activity is high like Sinaloa and Michoacan.

Un abrazo,
– El Conquistador

P.S. To make the most of your trip to Mexico, set up some dates on Mexican Cupid before you go.